Saturday, March 3, 2012

Why Do They Cheat?

From the Desk of Madame Dream:


Hope everyone is enjoying  their weekend.  I know that I am. I'll be havin' some freaky fun as usual.
So how is everything going in the world of romance and sex?  I have an interesting topic to discuss today...why men/women cheat?  Now here is what I will do-list some common problems/reasons why cheating happens...if you have your own to add let me know:
1.  Your partner has lost interest in you or you have lost interest in them.
  A. Time changes people and often the person you grew into isn't the person they met & your partner doesn't like that new person you are.
2.   One of you don't do the things that you use to do when you first met.
  A. He use to buy roses and spoil you with gifts...then he stopped.
3.  Another person has caught your fancy.
  A. This other person they are attracted to are at times, the total opposite of what you are...or they're the person that he/she wishes that you would be.
4.  Your partner was enticed (sometimes unintentionally) by another to be with them (your partner was preyed upon).
  A.  That other person does what I call "massage" their ego...what we call back home "gasin' your head up"...doing & saying things to your partner that makes them feel good...basically rollin with whatever and 110% totally down for your partner.
  B.  The other person pursued your partner knowing they are in a relationship. Perhaps your partner did brush off their advances initially;however,still fell victim due to psychological games played by the other person.
Those are a few of the common reasons "Why People Cheat"I am sure everyone can come up with a list of a dozen...but these are the top ones.