I want to fuck you,just NOT right now

*I want to fuck you,just not right now.*

We are in the age of technology, fast this and quick that. Advanced technology has played a heavy role in our personal relationships. Porn to your Iphone to live sex video chat applications,etc. 

I believe it has a role in dating and sex. Men want sex sooner (and sometimes more nastier). Women now have to consider losing a male friend/companion when she decides to wait to have sex with a man whom she doesn’t consider a potential spouse or life partner. 

Why is that you ask? (Some) Men get pissed and down right upset when you make him date you,wine&dine you for months,sometimes years without no form of sexual contact. Yes, (some) men see the price of a meal, hair do’s and a few tanks of gas in her car as an investment…i.e.-down payment on the booty.

Many women do not think ahead before they decide to give into him, and allow him to smash. Which could (and usually does) result in a one night stand.

I’ve rarely had one night stands in my adult sexually active lifetime. The couple that have occurred, I was the one who did the “standing”. 

A tactful way to handle a very anxious male companion/not-a-potential boyfriend type. Allow him to be as open as he can possibly be with you. Make sure you know where he is coming from. Once you get a clear understanding of his intentions, then go from there. 

Example-if he is willing to wait and take you out over a course of a year or close to it…awesome. Then see him sporadically, do not text or call him daily. That way you are not sending out mixed messages. Send him an occasional message maybe with a cute pic attached (nothing nude).And whenever you do go out with him, limit your physical contact. A simple hug or kiss is fine. And do not dress too provocatively. It’s okay to show your shape,but keep the goodies covered for the most part. Choose a fragrance that is sexy, this is what’s going to linger in his mind when the evening is over-“damn,she smelled so good tonight”.  The way you carry yourself during the nights you do go out with him, what you wore and your scent will have him grabbing his bottle of Jergens before he closes his eyes that night. This builds up the anticipation.

**Now fellas,at some point she’s going to “size you up”. She will pay attention to your pants to see if you have the size dick that she is interested in engaging with. She may hug you with her back facing you (a slick tact Divas do, to see if one you are aroused by us, and two-to see if your meat is thick or big enough when you brush it against our ass cheeks). 

When the moment arrives and you decide that you want to give him some, erase all doubt and have NO expectations. Make sure it is a day where you are very horny, so you know even if he sticks a pinky finger inside of you…you will be profusely wet.  And the sex will be whatever YOU want it to be. If you’ve established a little connection with him, you should be fine. Now if you are best friends, and the sex is whack..then you’ll have a problem. My advice, keep your distance since you do not want to be involved with him on that level. Try not to attach yourself to him….so knowing his favorite color is not important. The only things you should be concerned with are his status (HIV that is) and does he want to “hit it and quit it” or does he want to have a more than one time sex events with you ;-).

Hopefully I’ve been helpful and you’ll figure the rest out, take it day by day.

~Dream~©Thick Dream Productions,LLC.

Random Blog Love Poem Jan31_2014

My heart beckons for Him
Its rhythm is the leader in a procession
My blood circulation is rapid like rush hour traffic
Its thick,hot,and sweet 
My mind is on repeat
As if I am viewing my thoughts of Him
On a large movie screen
My nose is nostalgic
Which causes my eyes to water
My face stretches into a smile
Its recalling all of the things 
That love about Him
The safety in His embrace
That cannot be duplicated
The soft kiss of His lips
That causes the moisture in my pussy
The gentle whisper of His voice into my ear
That creates my nipples to hardened then elongate 
The way His hands caress my body is spiritual 
Our energy connection is beyond explanation 
This is our situation 
The Universe brought us together
By divine manipulation 

~Dream~

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The Bi In Dream

The Bi In~Dream~

As a woman who is confident in everything,including her sexuality. I have to share my opinion why women result to receiving companionship from the same sex. First,we are the dominant sex here in Atlanta. The males have many choices,and our choices at times can be very slim. Second,the men often are unfaithful to their partners which leads many women to be with another woman. Lastly, women admire other women and they know each others bodies,unlike some men there is no guessing about pleasing a woman-we know what we want. Also,not all women know how to effectively communicate their needs to a significant other.  In addition to,if the relationship lacks the intimacy that all women require, that also may influence a woman to pursue a same sex companion.

As a survivor of same sex child molestation, I have some knowledge and experience on the subject matter. During my adolescence I struggled with my sexuality. Never acting on the impulse to be with a woman, I disciplined myself. As a sexually active adult, the temptation is heavy;however, for me the end result would not be fulfilling. Hence, why I will never completely explore the curiosity.

I want to encourage women to work on the intimacy in their relationship. And always find ways to educate and improve yourself. I believe there is nothing wrong with liking (adoration) a woman, but when you cross over to explore with her sexually, you open yourself up to so much more (to persecution from others to pleasing both partners-your lesbian/bi lover and your heterosexual significant other can be a challenge). If that is your choice, I support you. Make sure it’s a decision that you’re okay with, and you’re getting your needs met fully.

Peace and Blessings To You,

~Dream~

Ms.Atlanta Thick~Dream~truly a grown woman

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Dear Diary_My Confessions_TheFaceOff_Jan14_2014

Dear Diary:

Hooray another year has came,and I survived 2013...so glad to come into the New Year in one piece.
The holidays were pleasant we went on a cruise to the Dominican Republic with some of our polygamy friends. Before leaving the country we hung out with his parents in the backwoods of Hicksville USA. 
We came back home a few days prior to the New Year,and it seemed like minutes later He was out the door on the road heading out for an assignment with work. "Sorry baby that you have to spend the New Year by yourself this year,I promise to make it up to you when I return on the weekend"he said as he kissed my forehead&closed the door behind him. 
Shortly after he left,I got bored very fast.  There was nothing on the television, it was too cold to go out anywhere, and my phone was dry.....not one text or phone call for hours. I got so bored that I started to play Candy Crush on my phone while listening to Pandora on the television. 
A call comes in and interrupts my Candy Crush concentration. It's my ex Jermaine,from Alabama...oh my goodness,I forgot that he was coming into town. 
"Hey Queen,what has been up with you"the bass from his voice tingled my ear lobe. Damn,I forgot how sexy his voice was too. "Hello J,oh nothing,just getting back from a cruise to the DR"I said calmly,trying not to show any excitement in my voice.
He and I talked for a few then decided that we were going to meet up at Chilli's for dinner and drinks. 
I arrived almost 30 minutes late due to the all of the out of town traffic, and I had to keep him on the phone the entire time I was stuck in traffic because he gets a little impatient when you are not punctual. 
I walked into the restaurant slowly, so I could put my phone on silent and I stopped to check my reflection in the doorway...had to make sure I was looking flawless. I decided to wear my black knee length boots,mesh stockings,with a black bodycon dress (I was saving for a date with the Sarg). Jermaine is standing up in the far left corner waving for me to come. When I was walking toward him, all I kept thinking was "damn,he still looks the fucking same....oh damn, but he has a FULL BEARD,wow..this is a new look...damn he looks good". 
"Hello goregous, who are you...who is this Miss-getting-slim-on-me still with a big ole onion butt"what he said as he reached his long arms to hug&kiss me. "Oh you need to quit J,I look the same you said the last time I sent you pic"I replied. "Well,I am here in the flesh with you now, and darling you look great...diiiiizam"he explained. "Thank you sir,and you look like a grown man finallly...who beard YOU stole man" I said. We both laughed out loud.
Dinner went good,we enjoyed the stroll down memory lane.  And for the life of me, I could not recall why he and I parted ways.  I didn't struggle wasting brain cells trying to figure out why either, I wanted to enjoy my time with him, things felt so innocent. I did not want to ruin the evening by dragging out dark repressed events. 
After dinner,I followed him back to a condo he was renting while in town. Once we got comfortable,we shared more laughs and we began to play like children attending a sleepover.  He popped some popcorn, we watched a scary movie (or attempted to watch a movie). I already saw the movie a few times, so my attention was not on television. I threw a pillow at him, he threw it back in my face. I tried to tackle him...and I landed on my butt because the floor in the condo was very shiny&slippery. Instead of helping me up,Jermaine is busting a gut laughing at me. "I don't see nothing funny"I said to him and I begin to pout. I got up,and was about to put my coat and shoes on to leave,but he stopped me. "Where do you think you're going woman,I am not done laughing at you"he said. "Jermaine...you play too much,and I see,you STILL are an inconsiderate jackass"I said in an almost pissed off tone.
He moved my coat and shoes even further away from me,pulled me close to him and he lifts me off the ground during a very long intense kiss. He sits me on the island in the kitchen,and while standing between my legs...he glides his long fingers upward to pull down my stockings. I damn near ripped his shirt off his back, I was dying to see his mahogany chest and his ski slope abs.
I don't remember how my dress came off,but it fell to the floor with the rest of our clothes.
His deep sexy voice said "let me see those pretty fucking toes you got". I pointed my toes at him as if were a little Ballerina. His lips were so soft and smooth against my pedicured feet. I felt something dripping on my leg...it was him precumming on me. I pushed him back, so that I could see his body fully. He stood like a statue,you know what-he kinda resembled a Ebony Leonidas.....so motherfucking handsome. 
I'm centered on the kitchen island,next to a fresh bowl of fruit.  I reached for an orange, as I begin to peel it...he starts to jerk his massive precuming dick. Our eyes are locked,as if we were about to duel. (And now in introspect, I know that was NOT the case....I was his prey.)
He came in closer&snatched me up by my ankles to suck my toes. Then he puts my legs on his shoulders to eat my pussy. I leaned back on my elbows,squeezed the orange over my navel so the juices would fill up my navel and drizzle down to Jermaine....the black Leonidas, who's fat and wide tongue was battling with my clit. A brief thought entered my mind during his oral conquest "I do not remember him eating pussy THIS damn GOOOOD,oh shiiiiit,could it be the beard that is making this so freaking good".  It was something about his facial hair that gave my pussy this different feeling,something I cannot explain. This was my first time EVER having my pussy ate by a guy with a beard too,so I am taking mental notes at the same time(lol). The texture of his hair had a lot to do with it, I just know it did.
After he drinks the juice from the orange out of my navel, he slides to the frig and flings the door open...."let's see what we can play with Queenie"he said. He grabbed condiments,cool whip and chocolate syrup. I didn't know if he was going to make a sandwich or make a sundae. 
He winds up covering both of us in cool whip and sticky chocolate syrup. I squirted mustard at his back when he tried to use the sprayer from the kitchen sink to rinse off the stickiness. I wasn't going to bust my ass again,it was a little ways down from the top of that island to the floor. 
The messy sensual kitchen play was super fun,yet arousing. I almost fainted when he made me cum from that fat tongue.  It was so HOT seeing him slowly rise up from my between my thighs, wearing what looked like a ectoplasmic (cum) coated beard.  The Black Leonidas got caught in the Queen Dream "webs"(lol). 
He helped me down from the island,and we went to take a shower. I think Jermaine came into to show off to me (lol)...him and this new fucking beard of his had all kinds of new "tricks". In the shower, he had no problem lathering me up with soap. He puts some soap in his beard to clean the food and my nectar (so I thought that was all he was doing). As I lean toward the flow of the water,he gets behind me,and bends down to scrub/play in my booty with his fluffy facial hair. 
FUCKING SHOW OFF(lol)....his 6ft2in male model type body creeps back into a standing position once he is finished kissing my ass cheeks. With one hand on my right breast, the other is busy fingering my asshole...he bites the left side of my neck. SHIT!! It felt toooo good. My pussy was extremely wet too because his big monster dick was bouncing against the back of my thigh. I wanted to turn around and suck the epidermis off that motherfucker (lol). He turned the water off.
He throws me a white robe (not a towel) to dry off with....

Why Would A Man Say No To Sex by Ms.Atlanta Thick~Dream~

Why Would A Man Say No To Sex

Believe it or not men sometime say no to sex, listed below are some factors that could be why he is passing on sex:

He is depressed for whatever reason from self esteem issues or he has a need to be nurtured that is not being fulfilled (some men have difficulties with self image,they struggle with accepting their growing and or aging body,men have a inner “boyish” portion that needs to be nurtured if that isn’t cultivated he could suffer emotionally which causes depression)

His testosterone is low and he is suffering from andropause (symptoms of andropause include-loss of energy,lack of enthusiasm, which hinders his sex drive)

He is having erectile dysfunction (a few causes are: stress,high blood pressure,certain medications)

His role in society and his career has him stressed out (the life of a male minority has many challenges that can only be overcome with hard work and determination,men who take their role in society very seriously constantly stay focused on their image,it is not uncommon for men to have a lingering fear of failure;in addition to,he could begin to have compulsive thoughts which becomes unhealthy and leads to stress)

He is tired (from work obligations or he has a health issue that’s causing him to become tired,the origin can be from an iron deficiency to a chemical imbalance in the brain)

He’s accepting the stereotype that older adults are not supposed to be seen as sexually active beings (some men believe that aging males aren’t to be seen as sexual as they were in their youth,some men believe that they will be viewed as immature or will be categorized as a pervert if they are considered as too sexual)

He is no longer focused on his sex life and intimacy (his role as a provider may replace his desire for intimacy,also other underlying issues with intimacy may cause him to refrain from sex)

His stamina is low due to not being physically active (not performing exercise can cause a decline in libido)

He’s consuming too much alcohol (alcohol is a depressant, it can lower your sex drive,only an occasional amount of alcohol is okay to assist with sexual arousal)

Sex life and Intimacy data compiled by Ms.Atlanta Thick~Dream~

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