I want to fuck you,just NOT right now

*I want to fuck you,just not right now.*

We are in the age of technology, fast this and quick that. Advanced technology has played a heavy role in our personal relationships. Porn to your Iphone to live sex video chat applications,etc. 

I believe it has a role in dating and sex. Men want sex sooner (and sometimes more nastier). Women now have to consider losing a male friend/companion when she decides to wait to have sex with a man whom she doesn’t consider a potential spouse or life partner. 

Why is that you ask? (Some) Men get pissed and down right upset when you make him date you,wine&dine you for months,sometimes years without no form of sexual contact. Yes, (some) men see the price of a meal, hair do’s and a few tanks of gas in her car as an investment…i.e.-down payment on the booty.

Many women do not think ahead before they decide to give into him, and allow him to smash. Which could (and usually does) result in a one night stand.

I’ve rarely had one night stands in my adult sexually active lifetime. The couple that have occurred, I was the one who did the “standing”. 

A tactful way to handle a very anxious male companion/not-a-potential boyfriend type. Allow him to be as open as he can possibly be with you. Make sure you know where he is coming from. Once you get a clear understanding of his intentions, then go from there. 

Example-if he is willing to wait and take you out over a course of a year or close to it…awesome. Then see him sporadically, do not text or call him daily. That way you are not sending out mixed messages. Send him an occasional message maybe with a cute pic attached (nothing nude).And whenever you do go out with him, limit your physical contact. A simple hug or kiss is fine. And do not dress too provocatively. It’s okay to show your shape,but keep the goodies covered for the most part. Choose a fragrance that is sexy, this is what’s going to linger in his mind when the evening is over-“damn,she smelled so good tonight”.  The way you carry yourself during the nights you do go out with him, what you wore and your scent will have him grabbing his bottle of Jergens before he closes his eyes that night. This builds up the anticipation.

**Now fellas,at some point she’s going to “size you up”. She will pay attention to your pants to see if you have the size dick that she is interested in engaging with. She may hug you with her back facing you (a slick tact Divas do, to see if one you are aroused by us, and two-to see if your meat is thick or big enough when you brush it against our ass cheeks). 

When the moment arrives and you decide that you want to give him some, erase all doubt and have NO expectations. Make sure it is a day where you are very horny, so you know even if he sticks a pinky finger inside of you…you will be profusely wet.  And the sex will be whatever YOU want it to be. If you’ve established a little connection with him, you should be fine. Now if you are best friends, and the sex is whack..then you’ll have a problem. My advice, keep your distance since you do not want to be involved with him on that level. Try not to attach yourself to him….so knowing his favorite color is not important. The only things you should be concerned with are his status (HIV that is) and does he want to “hit it and quit it” or does he want to have a more than one time sex events with you ;-).

Hopefully I’ve been helpful and you’ll figure the rest out, take it day by day.

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From The Seductress:Summer Seduction&Fetish

From The Desk of The Seductress:

Often I get asked by friends or fans"what can I do to turn him/her on" and "what can I do to enhance the sex"...well,its so many different things one can do to insure a pleasurable sexperience, I will share some ideas here and feel free to research on your own. Feedback is always welcome (atlthickdream@gmail.com).

There are certain foods that enhance the arousal in the human body (chocolate/caffeine,nuts,grapefruit-other citrus fruits,cinnamon,vanilla)...the aphrodisiac can vary in the individual(especially if they are into a fetish). Also,online you can purchase natural pheromones to attract someone to you(I would recommend checking local shoppes that carry natural products such as herbs,ointments,etc.)..I am big on pheromones&aphrodisiacs. 

However, I am here to tell you that the seduction starts in the mind first before anything else.  I am big on presentation and role play...the big picture is important...kinda like a kid receiving a present...how would you like a gift given to you that was wrapped in old newspaper from the fish market...and it had holes in it...I think not. Present yourself to your mate as much desirable as possible-------&always..always..always try to do this..it helps to keep your sex life poppin.I know that there is nothing like rolling over to your partner in the middle of the night and just going at it...I know,so during those times I will make an exception. But-many times our sexual encounters are planned...whether its meeting up with an old friend (with whom you have sex with) or you are going out for a night on the town (many of us know if we are going to get laid/give it up or not that night, there are few who hope&pray prior to leaving home that they get some,lol)...OKAY...NOW,when we go out..we dress up and put on our smell goods too right? Alrighty then, the same goes for when you are at home with your partner...do the exact same thing...try not to ever let yourself go (AKA-decreasing your:personal hygiene,grooming or whole well being)for too long...keep the sex spectacular(try different positions&locations)..and never assume that the loving is good all the time...when you are having sex with someone over a period of time...every single time can't always be good..all the time? That is rare...UNLESS, you are doing what I have written above.  Keeping yourself in check&keeping it poppin. If you have tried these things and nothing has worked for you then it could be that you're just completely turned off by that person,and dear nothing is going to help you but some prayer and a great imagination. Now before you completely throw the towel in here are some tips to keep it sexy this summer:

Summertime Sexy:

Ladies-Keep your hair done and nails done,if you cannot afford to hit the nail spa every two weeks,DIY(do it yourself)!  Make sure you are keeping your hair hydrated and clean to minimize breakage from the summer heat. Drink plenty of water to keep your insides healthy and your skin happy. Lastly,mix and match last years pieces with new accessories.  Do not be afraid to try to bright colors and trendy styles. Incorporate your lover into wardrobe decision making,bring him along or flick a dressing room pic,if its hot,he'll share,if he's silent more than likely keep it on the rack. 

Gentlemen-Keep it tight from head to toe women notice everything! Stay on schedule with your barber.  And its okay to look nice,especially for yourself and your lady(I promise you will not lose cool points with the fellas if you do so).  Do not forget to tighten up on your hygiene as the heat increases - keep your breath and balls fresh, yes-your sweaty salty balls,lol!! When shopping for new summer looks, be careful you do not want to over do it.  You do not want to look too "busy" with loud patterns. Ask your honey if you are not sure what looks nice on you, and if shopping is not your thing-hand over the card or the cash to her,and see what she brings back. 

For both sexes-Change around your bedroom,do some much needed cleaning,get rid of something they may have been pressing you to give away, do something ultra kinky together,make sure you get out and get it popping,get out of the routine,so no go on the BLAH!! Stay active and have fun-you only live once (YOLO)!

Moving along...if you have a particular fetish that you are into and your mate isn't...take caution when and if you decide to introduce this information to them...not everyone is open to evvvverything...and some pretend that they are in order to keep their mate happy (which isn't good because your partner will detect even an ounce of your resistance)...those who aren't interested in the whole fetish world...please be sensitive to those who are...if its someone you love...you might lose them or a part of them....I am going to take time to acknowledge some of the most common fetishes.I will list below:

1.BDSM-Bondange,dominating,submission,sadism&masochism (This can be serious and fun but not everyone can handle this.) A Dom-the head or leader in the relationship. The Sub-the submissive person in the relationship. A female Dom can be called a Mistress,Goddess,etc. A male Dom can be called a Master,Leader,Owner,Daddy,etc. The sub can be nicknamed a slave,pet,boy,or some odd title that's suppose to humiliate the sub.

2. Foot/feet fetish-(A personal favorite) I have openly admitted that I love feet! And I am not ashamed to say it.

3. Tickle fetish-research that one on your own..lol!

4. Bite fetish"odaxelagnia"-either you are the biter or the bitee...and yes, there has to be tactic used when doing this one.

5. Material or item fetish(what I call a Tangible Fetish)-fixation on a certain item,fabric,a particular size of a person or certain body parts(leather fetish,thigh fetish,big woman fetish,shoe fetish,big butt fetish).

Hope everyone is very aroused with today's topic...be blessed because you are loved.~Dream~

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